I’ve been shamed by other kinksters for this, yet am I actually weird for being No Recip?
(Switch, 27 NB male)
I’ve heard mixed opinions on this subject, so I’m posting it here. For me, I’m usually ‘no recip’ because I simply love giving head. As a switch, I love the submissiveness of not being reciprocated and as the dominance of making my sub squirm and beg. I don’t want to brag, all I’ll say is that l’ve never gotten a complaint. I love the feeling and hearing the groans is satisfying enough. I don’t even feel a need to touch myself, it’s like a brain-gasm.
I also have minimal feeling ‘down there’ outside of a few spots (thank my botched circumcision as a baby). Unless someone goes down on me or jerks in a specific way, I don’t really get anything out of getting head.
Call it a curse if you want, but I’ve made it work.
***No Recip (No Reciprocation) usually means not wanting to receive oral sex after giving it.
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