27 NB Male. Switch
I’ve tried implementing chastity but no cage has ever been secure enough (always falling off or cutting off blood to my parts). To compensate, I got a PA piercing a few years back that and with a 0g ring (8mm thick), it’s enough of a deterrent. My BF and a few fwbs do give me head, though they’ve learned to do what I need. So far though, 90% of the time I’m the one giving head.
Thanks to a botched circumcision as a baby, barely have any feeling ‘down there’ outside of a few spots. Those spots need to be stimulated certain way just for me to feel anything. Unless someone goes down on me or jerks in a specific way, I don’t really get anything out of getting head. It took me so long to figure out what I liked. After years of trial and error, I now rarely ask or even look for reciprocation because I simply love giving head. I don’t want to brag, all I’ll say is that I’ve never gotten a complaint. The feeling of the soft skin and hearing the groans and the spurts of an orgasm is satisfying enough. I don’t even feel a need to touch myself; it’s all feeling-based. As a dom, I love hearing my sub bf beg to finish while orally edging him. Then as a sub, I love the feeling that I’m being denied relief.
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