A new GayKink is coming, new rules, tighter focus. Here's your chance to have your say.

First of all, thank you all for making this group an amazing success. With over 250K members, and 2.2 million views in the last 30 days, we’re chuffed with how well this group is going.

Due to all the new members, we feel that we need to re-vamp the rules, but we want to include you in the re-vamp. Feel free to bring up points of discussion.

Challenge the rules as we may have missed something. We want this to be a cooperative effort.

Also, if you are truly interested in helping us out, we are still looking for mods to help us out directly. Note that you cannot be a new user and you must post/comment regularly to be considered.

To those who have already applied, Reddit is currently broken when it comes to searching mod mail, so we can’t search for past submissions. Please re-send your submission.

Yes, kink is subjective. Yes, we may disagree on the definition. Just because we don’t like something does not mean it’s not kinky. If you really feel like we’re gatekeeping, please realize that ALL subreddits have their rules and limits. Here are ours.

Definition of kink (per Wikipedia): In human sexuality, kinkiness is the use of sexual practices, concepts or fantasies that are NOT conventional.

IT MUST BE VISIBLE. This is a visual group. Telling us that it’s there is not enough. We want to see the bonds, the gag, the massive toy.
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How to get instantly banned: rape / scat / incest. Scat MUST have a spoiler tag. The other two are instant bans.
Penetration: Non-conventional objects, plugs or dildoes, be it size or shape
Fleshlights: Only non-conventional use, such as in a gasmask for facefucking.
Fucking machines: Acceptable in all shapes and sizes, especially combined with one of the other rules.
Plugs: smaller ones are not kinky unless in OBVIOUS public settings, otherwise see rule 1
Public settings: There has to be an OBVIOUS possibility of discovery. Inside stalls, in a car without seeing the outdoors, in a back yard are NOT kinky.
Feet/socks/footwear/pits: Unless there is someone actually smelling or licking them, they are NOT kinky
Pissing: Unless it’s you in an OBVIOUS public setting wetting yourself, or you’re pissing on/in someone, including virtually, or you are marking some unconventional territory, it’s JUST PISSING. ABDL is acceptable, though.
Cross-dressing: Must be demonstrably so. One piece of clothing does not count. Being so well made up we can’t tell it’s cross-dressing also does not count.
Fetish gear: A jock is not kinky. A harness is. A cock ring is not. A ball stretcher is, when in use. Other forms of non-conventional attire/materials are acceptable.
Chastity: Always kinky. Please make sure that if you’re posting multiple pics that one of the first ones is a caged penis. We do not necessarily have the time or energy to go through 8 pics to see that the last one was of a caged member.
Gaping/rosebuds: This is what happens after play. This is not inherently kinky.
Fucking: It is NOT kinky, even if you are in an orgy. Unless one of the above is not included, it is NOT acceptable.
Exposure/Humiliation/Power Exchange: We understand that there’s a lot of nuance in these subjects. Unfortunately they are VERY hard to portray. If it’s not visible, it’s not kinky.
Links: NO EXTERNAL points of contact. We cannot verify that it is you, and/or consensual. This includes watermarks. Watermarks should be your Reddit handle. There will be no exceptions.
OF/JFF/Pro/Cash Dom/paid service: Even if you don’t post it in your post, if there is an indication of any of that in your profile, you are limited to one post EVERY 7 days. No exceptions.
Solicitation: No mention of cash, credit or tribute. You can mention you are a content creator on a paid site. If the guys here like your posts here, they can go find you. We will not provide you with free advertising.
Personals: ONLY if you are seeking kink. ALL others will be removed. It can be text only, or you can post a KINKY photo. State age, location, your kinks, what you’re looking for and a personal description. You MUST include M4M in your post. Contact via D/M ONLY. No kik, snap, etc. Also, no findom, exposure/humiliation or anything related to those.
Flairs: They are OPTIONAL (with a very few exceptions, and those tend to need the SPOILERS). Please do not report Personals unless the pic is not kinky or if it is all text and they don’t follow the Personals rule.
NO duplicate posts, be it because it didn’t appear, or you use the same pic with different titles. All but one will be removed.

We will also be changing the report labels and quick responses once we have the rules in place.

We also want to work as a team with all of you. We encourage reporting when there’s an OBVIOUS issue.

If you object to a removal, please contact us. We are very willing to give you an opportunity to say your piece.

Maybe we missed something. We’re human, we’re volunteers, we’re overworked and NOT paid. We make mistakes.

If after raising an objection, we still maintain it is not acceptable, move on. Bad attitude will only get you muted.

We give a reason for every post we remove, unless it’s a mindless post such as “I’m horny. DM”.

If there isn’t one, either it was the Automod, Reddit TOS, or we forgot (see above about being human).

There are some words that will automatically be flagged, and the post put into review. Under review does not mean it’s not accepted. It means we mods need to look at it to accept or remove the post.

Please contact us for clarification. Please DO NOT delete your post. We can’t verify it if it’s not there.

Now onto the unpleasant aspects of the rules.

If you are a repeat offender, you will be banned. Initially, it will be temporary, but will get longer until it is permanent. We can see your post history, both internal and to other subreddits.

Thank you again for your amazing support so far, and we hope we can continue growing as a community together.