Recommendations for slow burn slice-of-life bl/yaoi?

I’ve been reading Karaoke iko bc of the new anime and found out their relationship is a little more developed in the sequel, Famires iko or let’s go to the family restaurant. The main character is a college student who is obviously gay if you’re reading, but is also pretty normal. He hasn’t even really come to terms with being gay, just is living his life and quietly pining for this other guy. The other guy is a yakuza member but a really nice guy, but also quite a bit older than him. It definitely gives it conflict.

I just caught up with the most recent chapter, and I really enjoyed the slow burn slice of life of it all. But I would definitely like something that’s a little bit more heavy-handed with the bl with maybe some spicy scenes. I feel like it’s been a while since I read a yaoi/bl where they weren’t loudly gay and flamboyant and it wasn’t such a huge part of their daily lives. I’m willing to compromise on either part, I’d be happy with just a slow burn or just a slice of life too. Please give me some recs! (Also pray for me I’m desperate for the, to kiss)